Want My Ex Back - The Golden Laws that Separate the Victors, and Victims. 

I’ve heard it time and time again, ‘I want my ex back‘. It’s a complex problem that has befuddled thousands of lost couples, and has defeated the average chump or typical trixie. When things have turned sour, getting your ex back is an emotional and mental challenge that can take its toll. Fortunately, for those who don’t have the knowledge and power to harness the laws which govern relationships, at Want My Ex Back, I’m going to show you how.

Like Romeo, there is no quick-fix on how to make things work overnight, let alone survive. But stay strong, I’m going to tell you exactly what you need to know. The psychology behind the secrets of the emotional mind.

If you’re here, you’ve probably had some tears.

Lets face it, after breaking up you probably want to sit on the couch eating ice-cream, watching the good old Sliding Doors, while contemplating and couch-camping it out. And that’s fine. But don’t give up hope yet, if there is any reason for you to be here, its probably because you are the victim of:

1. You got dumped, and want to get back with your ex.
2. You were rejected, and you want a second chance.
3. You were the dump-er, realized it was a mistake and now can’t stop thinking –  ’I want my ex back’.
4. You got divorced.

Just do yourself one favor, one favor that could save your relationship from permanent damage – Read and understand the Golden Rules, before you attempt to get them back. Although every muscle fiber, neuron and cell urges you to just call and ‘wing it’ – don’t call! You will need a game plan before you make your move.

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The Golden Rule - The Laws of Re-Attraction

This is the most fundamental law of any relationship – in this case, to make your ex want you. Period. You’ve managed to land a smoking hot babe or sizzling man, but things went south and now its over. The bottom line is, you’ve done something wrong that has lowered your Ex’s attraction toward you. So what have you done, and how do you fix it?

The truth is, most people think that once they catch miss right or meet sir Lancealot, that it’s done. Finished. They can win and get happily married. But let me tell you the truth - you will still have to play by the same rules, to maintain a high attraction.

Having your partner or ex-partner develop and maintain a high emotional attraction to you is the key to building any sort of lasting relationship, even after horrific circumstances (i.e. marriage). It is the number one thing you must consistently do – Increase your attraction, so that they will always want you.

What many of you ‘heart-brokenees’ don’t realize is that the untold complexities of attraction will either make or break your relationship. From the day you meet, until the day you’re buried immobile, this law is going to stick around whether you like it or not. The Laws of Attraction are going to determine how well you can court, date and sustain an exciting relationship even after you’re married. It will save you from the trauma from such high rates divorce (around 50%), and the countless amounts of dinners, heartache, money, time and energy wasted.

In short, there are three KEY phases that you must know in order to get your ex back.

The First Phase: Why you shouldn’t call! …… Yet.

You’re about to learn the first law of re-attraction.  To get your ex back, here is the first law:

The first law of increasing attraction is: be the best YOU, you can be, by getting a firm grip on your emotional, mental and physical state of mind.

This is by far the hardest part about getting your ex back. Nothing is as emotionally challenging or difficult than getting a grip on your emotions. Its completely natural to feel overwhelmed or frustrated when things that have turned out badly. Your emotional-ridden self is urging you to leave 15 missed calls on your partner’s voice-mail in hopes they will take you back through pity or realizing it was a mistake.

Let me share with you something – this is going to make you look insanely appealing and attractive. NOT! Perhaps more like… desperate, pathetic. You will need to get a grip, and get it fast!

By leaving loads of voice-mails or text messages that make you look desparate for a second chance, you’re LOWERING the attraction and chances of getting back together. It’s wrong, wrong, wrong  and I guarantee, it’s gonna cost you.

You should be trying to get your ex-partner to think: ‘I want my ex back’ by improving and raising the standards of your attractiveness, to have them inevitably come back. This is the primary goal.

(You can learn more on how to recover from your break-up, and get a grip on your emotions in my free guide.)

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The Second Phase: How to Get Your Ex to Think the Magic Words, ‘Want My Ex Back’

After getting yourself ready to shoot apples off heads and sling birds at green pigs, you will need to take the second step towards building attraction. To do this, you need to use the second law of re-attraction:

The second law of attraction is the test of self-discipline: You should never attempt to contact your ex. Doing so will be suicidal for your chances. 

• Never try and get a reaction out of your ex, it’s annoying and will make you look stupidly desperate.
• Never attempt to purposely initiate conversation with your ex, you could get ‘friend-zoned’.
• Never call your ex unless you’re being chased by a crazy axe-murderer AND he/she is the only contact on your phone AND somehow are unable to press the “911″ code AND you aren’t lying.

So when the hell should I contact him/her?

Easy, you contact her when one of three things happen.

• 1. When your ex contacts you – he/she might even suggest to hang out.
• 2. Or, when you don’t want your ex back anymore.
• 3. When you know exactly how to do it. <- I can help.

Most people think its terrible idea to avoid contact with their ex. It’s not, it’s the best and healthiest thing you can do. Who knows? You might even be over your ex by the time the no contact phase is over.

These are the most common questions:

• “They won’t know I care about them?”
• “They don’t care about me, no contact would be hopeless, right?”
• “How do I know I still have a chance? I’ve made so many mistakes.”

Here’s the truth. Ready for it? By avoiding contact with your ex, you will increase the attraction level by removing the emotional resistance while increasing the mystery and implanting the thought of ‘Want my ex back’ in their mind. It’s infinitely important that you avoid contact with your ex, or you’re heading to the eye of Mordor with a HUGE white flag.

You will need a game plan to re-engage your ex. But please, do not contact your ex!!!

It is extremely important you know exactly how to make contact with your ex, and what you need to say.

What about the walls? How (and when) do I contact him/her and get them open up to me again?

The no contact period is a challenging phase to re-attract your ex back. When having time apart, time will heal over the wounds which would have otherwise be dangerous to progress. For the chump and trixie, the average time apart you will need is approximately 1 – 3 months of no contact. If you’ve made some huge blunders, then more time will be required. Capiche?

If you would like my Free Ebook to get your ex back, or learn about my strategies to get your ex back here.

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The Third Phase: Breaking down the Walls and Proving things will be Different.

Just a quick question – if you were to get back with ex, what would be different about your relationship this time? The truth is when two ex-lovers get back together, they are faced with the same problems, bad habits, annoyances and shortcomings they faced when they were previously together. Unfortunately, if you think that all these things would magically go away, you’d have to be lying to yourself. After all, no one wants to have their heart broken twice, right?

So what do you do? What is the third step to get your ex back?

The third law to get your ex to want you back is this: Prove to yourself and your ex that things will be different, by changing who you are as a person, and looking past the shortcomings of your ex.

Re-attracting your ex is slightly more complicated than finding a completely new partner to date. If you cannot deal with the third law of improving yourself and your mental attitude, why should they want you back? Are you willing to change yourself to become a better person?

Unfortunately for many singles, the hardest part is changing themselves. Everyone who has a difference of opinion will always believe that they themselves are right, and cannot conceive being wrong. By understanding these differing preferences, you must realize that you will not be able to change your ex, but only yourself. This is why the third law exists.

Your Game Plan

Breaking down the walls is the most complicated and delicate subject of getting your ex to want you back, and frankly, needs a serious plan of approach. You can easily push your ex further away than is recoverable, and what you need is the right knowledge to push you in the right direction.

So if you’re interested in learning more about how to recover your ex, you can download my free guide on how to get your ex back from me (Dan G).

OR!

If you’re directly looking for a proven system to get your ex back, the Ex Recovery System – by Ashley Kay is a great choice. You can read my thoughts about her system here.

Remember, getting your ex back is by no means an easy task, therefore I highly recommend you check out my free system to get your ex back.